Herb Kay's S.O.S. System
  November 15, 2009
  "I'm Herb Kay and the most important thing to know about me is that I'm not going to lie to you or pull your chain. Ever. In my S.O.S. Guides, I give you, well, guidance, in a straight-talking and step-by-step way. The website offers the "advice side" of my system. Here, in my blog, I'm going to dig a little deeper and get a little grittier. That's the opinion side of my system. Will I say something that might shock you? Maybe. Will I ruffle some feathers? Perhaps. Will you close the page with some food for thought? Absolutely."

The Herb Kay Way is the straight forward, never-mince-words way. Check out Herb's latest blog on your money, your career, your debt, the economy and the world we live in.
 
Pursuing Worthwile Goals
When Downsizing is a Powerful Tool
Can We Address the Important Issues?
Just a Sentence or Two.....
A Dose of Reality
Getting Involved and Taking a Stand
Study Up on Your Loans
Drop Back Ten and Punt!
Who Can you Depend On?
Some Sobering News About the Economy
Grab a Beer and Take the Slide Home......
Another Loophole, Another Lesson
What is Your Core Conversation?
Loyalty and Leadership
The Argument for Being a Grownup
The 'Business' of Complaints
Electricity in the Air......
Taking a Hard Look at the Figures
A Public Life
My "Advice" to You
Perspective vs. History
Worried Sick!
It's About the Kids!
Gooooooooaaaallll?
Where Will the Money Come From?
Immigration Arguments: Debunked!
Blame Policy, Not Banks
Happy Birthday America!
Crony Capitalism
G8/20 and What That Means For You!
Our Economy and the Free Market
Building a Bubble?
"Fixing" Our Problems
The $20 Billion SNAFU
A Screaming Deal!
Action Breeds Success!
It's Going to Take Some Effort!
Getting Our Lives Back
For Better or Worse......... I Prefer Better
The Pressure to be President.......
This Great Nation......
Financial Reform - Ha...what a joke!
Municipal Bonds are a thing of the Past!
Feeling Good!
Moving Forward
The Signs Are All Around Us
It's a Grim Diagnosis
Oh, the Pressure.....
The Big Fat Greek Fallout
It's Getting Ugly......
Perfection is a Myth
Be Different
Moving on While Moving Ahead
An Immigration Abomination
I've Got a Question.......
Logic vs. The Logistics of Inflation
The Free Market - Greed at its Very Best
Informed on Inflation
Don't Fix What Isn't Broken
Harnessing Energy - The Herb Kay Way
Staying Ahead of the Curve
What Trade Deficit?
Greek to Me
There's a Bridge in Brooklyn......
Problems That Don't Exist
Don't Invest in Mediocrity
The Fed's Mutually Exclusive Roles
Deadly Serious
Election Year Scapegoats
"Willfully Insane"
Balancing your Beliefs - How Our Political Convictions Influence the Debate Over the Economy
Let's Reward the Renters
Don't Plug the Hole.......Replace the Bucket!
Europe's Safety Net
The Collapse of the System
Apple Makes a Lemon
Pot, Capitalism & The Free Market
Who is Your Banker?
Real Estate? Now is NOT the Time!
Grading on a Curve
When the Inflation Stars Align
When Foolishness Goes International....
The Recovery?
The Competitive Advantage of Reaganomics
What Wednesday Brings.....
Stopping The Addiction
Signing On The Dotted Line
Be Optimistic - Not Foolish
The Real Story
Selling Your House (and your credit) Short!
The Entitlement State
It's Anyone's Guess
Ask, And You Just Might Receive
Crazy Like A Fox!
It's Only Tuesday!
Spending Some Time - Cutting Spending
There's No Such Thing As Easy Money!
What Exactly is Responsible Borrowing?
Just Bite The Bullet
With Change Comes Turmoil
Q & A......The Herb Kay Way!
Wanna Bet? Gamble on Inflation!
A Lesson on Education
Two Different Beasts: Why Price Does Not Equal Wealth
For this Party - Three's a Crowd
Good Luck With All of That!
Dear Mr. Bank President:
It's Not That Simple
Raising the Stakes
State of The Union: The Herb Kay Way!
Capital Gains - Your Pains!
Cooking the Books
What's in a Name?
Questionable Choices: Healthcare Reform
And the Person of the Year Is......
A History Lesson
Goverment's Stimulus Fairytale
Let's Hope I'm Wrong
Fake Money = Real Problems
Collectors Lie
35 Million Americans Can't Be Wrong
Simple Truths, Simple Lies
Lending and The Federal Reserve: Why Making Banks Rich Again Will be Bad for the Economy
Are You Health Care Aware?
Have Good Credit? With New Legislation in the Works, the Question is, Who Cares?
Healthcare and the President
Tips for Choosing a Bank and the Right Bank Account
 
Simple Truths, Simple Lies
 

“Mad Men”, which if you haven’t seen it is terrific television (Sundays on AMC) recently walked away with the lion’s share of this year’s Emmy awards. Not to be redundant if you have seen it or to ruin it if you haven’t, the show is about a Madison Avenue Advertising firm in the early 1960s and the drama surrounding its officers, employees, and families in this time of great change.

There two things that I love about the show.  First is the coolness factor, I have to be honest and say that I am getting the itch to run out and buy a 1960s cut grey suit and white shirts with French cuffs!  It was just so damn cool!  I also have to be honest and admit that 25 years after I quit smoking, watching them light up over martinis does it for me.  I feel like running out and buying a pack of Viceroy’s (do they still make them?) and lighting up! 

And the second thing I love, and what motivated me to write this blog, is the total lack of political correctness displayed by the characters.  Now to be sure, some of it is just plain repulsive.  I don’t agree with calling women cute little names and spouting sexual innuendo (and in some cases pretty graphically!), but there is something really refreshing about calling dumb, smart, ridiculous, stupid, disgusting, crazy, etc. by their real names as opposed to some watered down, carefully constructed version like “having professional issues” or “not a team player” or “it was due to a breakdown in communication”.

To those who know me, I am a throw-back to that time.  It is when I grew up after all. I’m not afraid to say that I still think men look great in hats, with their hair parted.  I am also as non-PC as they come, but I have to admit it does make my companions occasionally uncomfortable.  Why should that be?  Why should what is evident to everyone in the room, somehow be off limits?

Case in point is how we are somehow afraid to call a lie a lie.  Our leaders can stand in front of a huge crowd, say something that is clearly a lie, and if they are called on it, the accuser, who generally is correct, is called an agitator or worse.  For example, when the President gave his speech before Congress on healthcare he cited two examples that were both factually and entirely incorrect.  No, not the immigration issue that Congressman Wilson shouted about, the assertions happened to be about two people and their insurance coverage.  The truth turned out to be very different from the story told the night before and when called on it, the White House responded that while the actual facts may not have been accurate, the sentiment certainly was. I just hate it when facts get in the way of a good story.  And that is not the unbelievable part.  Later, the President’s allies started calling anyone who brought up this sort of thing (also known as fact checking) a racist! Are we forgetting that the President was elected by a large majority of the population in the first place and that his race is not some big secret?

Don’t you think the world would be a better place if we could state simple truths without regard to whose feelings we may hurt?  Better yet, wouldn’t it be great to state a simple fact and not have your motivations impugned?  You know, good is good, bad is bad, truth and lies are distinct, and the list goes on.  Ah, well, I suppose I will just have to buy some Brylcream and a hat to go with my Viceroy’s and sit alone at a bar drinking dirty martinis and reminiscing…..